Catch a Husband Cake is one of those desserts that instantly makes an impression. Creamy, moist, and topped with a generous layer of shredded coconut, this Brazilian classic has a name as unforgettable as its flavor. The cake is luscious with sweetened condensed milk and coconut milk, and it’s designed to melt hearts from the very first bite. Light yet rich, it’s perfect for anyone looking to bring a bit of tropical indulgence to their dessert table.
Why the curious name? Legend has it that this cake is so good, it could win someone a marriage proposal. Whether you’re making it for someone special or just treating yourself, Catch a Husband Cake delivers creamy satisfaction in every slice. With its unique texture and tropical flavors, it’s the kind of dessert that gets requested over and over again.
What Makes Catch a Husband Cake So Irresistible?
This cake stands out for its velvety, pudding-like center and ultra-moist crumb. Thanks to a rich mix of condensed milk, coconut milk, and whole eggs, it blurs the line between cake and flan, creating a smooth and tender texture that’s truly crave-worthy. It’s typically baked in a bundt or ring pan, then soaked with a warm coconut sauce to seal in the moisture. The final flourish of shredded coconut adds the perfect tropical touch.
Whether served chilled by the pool or warm from the oven, the combination of custard-like interior and chewy coconut topping makes it irresistible.
Ingredients for the Catch a Husband Cake
Sweetened Condensed Milk – The base of the cake’s flavor and richness. It provides that classic caramelized sweetness and dense texture.
Coconut Milk – Adds tropical depth and a creamy consistency that complements the condensed milk beautifully.
Whole Eggs – Essential for structure and richness. Using whole eggs ensures the cake sets properly while staying tender.
Flour – Gives the cake body and ensures it holds together without becoming too dense.
Sugar – A little added sugar enhances the sweetness without overpowering the natural coconut flavor.
Butter – For richness and a touch of savory balance. Melted butter mixes smoothly into the batter.
Shredded Coconut – Sprinkled over the top, it adds texture, visual appeal, and that extra coconut punch.
Baking Powder – Ensures the cake rises slightly and maintains its light crumb.
Milk – Used in the soaking syrup, it helps to keep the cake incredibly moist and adds creaminess to the topping sauce.


How To Make the Catch a Husband Cake
Step 1: Prepare the Baking Dish
Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease a bundt or ring cake pan generously with butter and a light dusting of flour to prevent sticking. Set it aside while you prepare the batter.
Step 2: Blend the Wet Ingredients
In a large mixing bowl or blender, combine the sweetened condensed milk, coconut milk, whole eggs, melted butter, and regular milk. Blend until smooth and fully combined. This step is key for achieving the cake’s signature creamy texture.
Step 3: Add Dry Ingredients
Gradually sift in the flour and baking powder into the wet mixture, stirring or blending until there are no lumps. The batter will be slightly thinner than traditional cake batter, which is expected.
Step 4: Bake to Perfection
Pour the batter into the prepared cake pan. Bake for 40 to 50 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center comes out mostly clean. The top should be golden and slightly springy to the touch.
Step 5: Make the Coconut Topping
While the cake is baking, prepare the topping. In a small saucepan, heat additional coconut milk, sugar, and a bit of regular milk over low heat until it begins to thicken slightly. Stir frequently to avoid scorching. Set aside.
Step 6: Assemble and Garnish
Once the cake is out of the oven and slightly cooled, pour the warm coconut topping over the cake. Generously sprinkle with shredded coconut, allowing some to stick to the sides.
Step 7: Chill or Serve Warm
You can serve this cake warm for a comforting treat or chill it in the fridge for a more flan-like consistency. Either way, it’s bound to impress!
Serving and Storing This Dreamy Cake
Catch a Husband Cake is best enjoyed chilled or at room temperature, making it the perfect make-ahead dessert for parties, brunches, or intimate dinners. Serve it on a platter with a few tropical fruits on the side, or just as it is with all that creamy coconut goodness. A sprig of mint or an edible flower adds a beautiful touch.
To store, cover the cake tightly with plastic wrap or keep it in an airtight container. It will stay fresh in the refrigerator for up to 5 days. The texture actually improves after a day or two as the flavors meld and the topping soaks in deeper.
For longer storage, you can freeze individual slices wrapped in parchment and foil for up to a month. Thaw overnight in the fridge before serving.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don’t have a bundt pan?
No worries! A round or square 9-inch cake pan will also work. Just keep an eye on the bake time—it may be slightly shorter or longer.
Can I use unsweetened coconut milk?
Yes, unsweetened coconut milk works great and helps balance the sweetness from the condensed milk and sugar. Just be sure not to use the kind meant for drinking—stick with canned.
Is this cake gluten-free?
Not by default, but you can swap in a gluten-free all-purpose blend. The texture may vary slightly, but it still turns out rich and moist.
Do I need to poke holes in the cake for the topping?
Poking small holes with a skewer helps the coconut topping soak into the cake beautifully. It’s optional, but highly recommended for that melt-in-your-mouth feel.
Can I make this cake ahead of time?
Absolutely. It’s actually better when made a day in advance and chilled. That gives the topping more time to absorb into the cake.
What’s the best way to toast the shredded coconut?
Spread it on a baking sheet and bake at 325°F (163°C) for 5-8 minutes, stirring once. Keep an eye on it—it toasts quickly!
Want More Cake Ideas That Win Hearts?
If this Catch a Husband Cake captured your sweet tooth, you’re going to love these other irresistible treats from the blog:
- Strawberry Cheesecake Cupcakes are perfect for individual indulgence with creamy centers.
- Cinna Bun Cake gives cozy bakery vibes in every bite.
- Triple Chocolate Banana Bread is a rich, chocolatey twist on a classic.
- Pistachio Pudding Sugar Cookie Bars offer a chewy texture with a nutty punch.
- Strawberry Crunch Cheesecake Salad is a no-bake wonder that’s great for gatherings.
You’ll find they each bring their own flair to the dessert table while keeping prep simple and flavor unforgettable.
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Catch a Husband Cake
- Prep Time: 10 minutes
- Cook Time: 45 minutes
- Total Time: 55 minutes
- Yield: 8 servings 1x
- Category: Dessert
- Method: Baking
- Cuisine: Brazilian
- Diet: Vegetarian
Description
Catch a Husband Cake is a creamy, coconut-infused Brazilian dessert known for its luscious texture and unforgettable flavor. With a rich custard-like center and a coconut topping, it’s a showstopper dessert perfect for winning hearts at any gathering.
Ingredients
1 can sweetened condensed milk (14 oz)
1 can coconut milk (13.5 oz)
3 whole eggs
1 cup all-purpose flour
2 tablespoons sugar
2 tablespoons melted butter
1 cup shredded coconut (for topping)
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 cup milk (for the topping sauce)
1/4 cup sugar (for the topping sauce)
1/2 cup coconut milk (for the topping sauce)
Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 350°F (175°C) and grease a bundt or ring pan with butter and flour.
2. In a blender or mixing bowl, combine sweetened condensed milk, coconut milk, eggs, melted butter, and regular milk. Blend until smooth.
3. Sift in the flour and baking powder, blending until no lumps remain. Batter will be slightly thin.
4. Pour into prepared pan and bake for 40 to 50 minutes or until golden and toothpick comes out mostly clean.
5. In a small saucepan, warm 1/2 cup coconut milk, 1/4 cup sugar, and 1 cup milk. Stir on low heat until slightly thickened.
6. Let cake cool slightly, then pour warm topping over it.
7. Sprinkle generously with shredded coconut.
8. Serve warm or chilled for a flan-like texture.
Notes
For extra flavor, toast the shredded coconut before topping.
Allow cake to cool slightly before adding topping so it absorbs evenly.
Store leftovers in the fridge for up to 5 days; flavor improves over time.
Nutrition
- Serving Size: 1 slice
- Calories: 370
- Sugar: 32g
- Sodium: 120mg
- Fat: 18g
- Saturated Fat: 13g
- Unsaturated Fat: 4g
- Trans Fat: 0g
- Carbohydrates: 45g
- Fiber: 2g
- Protein: 6g
- Cholesterol: 95mg
Keywords: Catch a Husband Cake, coconut dessert, Brazilian cake
